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‘Engaging Faith Communities’ an important look at conflict between religious tradition and modern child ethics

June 4, 2011

This morning’s early events were ‘break-out’ sessions divided into five different lectures: Engaging Parents, Engaging Faith Communities, Engaging Cultural Communities, Engaging Teachers, Doctors & Other Professionals, and Engaging Youth. I chose to attend Engaging Faith Communities, which took place in the Far East Room here at the Fairmont and featured Chris Dodd, Rita Swan, and Raffi Cavoukian.

There were some pretty interesting ideas on display here. Chris Dodd led off with a brief lecture on how working with religious leaders and their respective communities to end corporal punishment was incredibly important for the overall cause. Rita Swan followed up with some interesting anecdotes on how she was able to collaborate with the Methodist Church community to pass an anti-CP resolution in 2004. While the resolution was indeed passed and still holds true today, Swan lamented the continuing obstacles hindering discourse with faith communities today, such as the pro-CP stance of James Dobson, a notable fundamentalist conservative. Among some literature she recommended to counter Dobson’s arguments were Thy Rod And Thy Staff by Samuel Martin and How Would Jesus Raise Your Child? by Teresa Whitehurst.

Swan was also adamant to remind the attendees that direct, uninhibited confrontation with the religious community would in all likelihood hinder future discourse.

“We will never engage with faith communities if we begin  talks by saddling them with guild for using corporal punishment,” said Swan.

Raffi Cavoukian gave more detail on his Centre for Child Honouring and how he was inspired to create such an institution. Looking back at his young childhood attending an ‘imposing’ Armenian church in Egypt with ‘fearful, child-unfriendly’ clerks dressed completely in black, Cavoukian pondered the nature of some church-made ‘commandments’ and their credibility.

“You can’t force anybody to feel what  they don’t feel,” Cavoukian said in response to some of the more dogmatic church laws.

“We are born for creativity…our call of duty is to conscience, not authority.”

Cavoukian then provided two plaques inscribed with a ‘plea to faith leaders’ to end CP and all forms of child violence and a pro-child honoring ‘proclamation’ that he hopes will be signed by well over 100,000 faith leaders.

(The manner in which he held the plaques made him look like Moses with the Ten Commandment tablets- a humorous visual which both he and the audience had a laugh about.)

“It’s how we see the child that may inform how we live as human beings,” said Cavoukian.

“Neuroscience has shown us what Aboriginal cultures have already known for centuries- we have a sacred bond with the child.”

I’m off to the Gold Room to cover one of the final panels of the conference, ‘Brainstorming Strategies toward Ending C. P. in Schools’. Texas and Louisiana State Representatives Dr. Alma Allen and Barbara Norton will be joining Nadine Block as panelists. I’ll be back with more coverage on that later today!


The Summit Opens: Corporal Punishment, Nonviolence, & Children’s Rights

June 3, 2011

What a whirlwind night!

So many great moments at the opening tonight. Dr. Holden’s exuberant (and, at time emotional) opening speech. SMU Provost Dr. Paul Ludden’s anecdote on the ever-increasing disciplines of Dallas teachers. The standing ovations for Murray Straus, Nadine Block, and Peter Newell.

And let’s not forget the flags. What I had originally thought to be a small, generic international flag set turned out to elicit some of the most emotional responses of the night. The 29 flags inserted in the stand stood for the 29 countries that have now fully banished corporal punishment within their boundaries. Much like the rug from ‘The Big Lebowski’, this unassuming set seemed to tie the room together- speaker Mali Nilsson was more than proud to announce that her native country of Sweden (where she serves as an advocator for Save The Children) was the first country to abandon corporal punishment.

Internationally popular children’s singer Raffi Cavoukian kissed the tiny set during an exuberant mini-set he performed for the audience, mixing hits like ‘Counting on You’ and ‘Human Child’ with personal reflections on what led him to become such a prominent voice in the fight for children’s rights. (And wow, I didn’t know he’d racked up such an impressive set of awards and honors.) There was many a time during his performance where the audience themselves were drawn in to sing along with him. He also spoke in great detail about the Centre for Child Honouring, which he helped to found. It looks like a great start to help start spreading alternative influence against many of the child-rearing methods many take for granted.

The last two speakers of the night really shocked me. When I sat down with my laptop ready to watch and observe today, I didn’t have a clue that some of the biggest surprises of the night were going to be the performances and efforts of an 11-year-old and a 17-year-old. However, future Hockaday student Dawn Ford and New Zealand ‘youth crusader’ Johny O’Donnell easily garnered some of the biggest accolades of the night.

Ford, with a stage presence and command well beyond her years, gave a straightforward and humorous speech on how her parents raised her without physical discipline and how it made her into the person it is today. (A great rule for parents to use when disciplining their children, courtesy of Ford: “Know the rules, follow the rules, reap the awards!”) She then broke out into a rendition of Yolanda Adams’ ‘What About The Children’ that brought the audience to their feet. (Her sisters also provided an interpretative dance performance in front of the stage.)

O’Donnell began his story with a Maori prayer, then went on to describe how he ended up leaving high school early and becoming a (very) young ambassador for the children and youth of New Zealand with his leading role in forming SAVE- ‘Students Against Violence Everywhere’ – in 2009. Johny has played a big part in persuading the New Zealand government to recently ban corporal punishment from their country, and has been touring both his country and the world, raising awareness about children’s rights to both youth and adult groups alike. He’ll be speaking in the Engaging Youth lecture at 8:30a.m. on Saturday about his continued efforts in New Zealand. (Raffi will be speaking in a similar lecture, Engaging Faith Communities, at the same time. There are also three other lectures scheduled for that time block. What to choose??)

In short, a lot of amazing and unexpected things happened at tonight’s opening. I can only expect to see more over the next two days. See you tomorrow!